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New Year, Christmas time, Christmas… What do these three holidays have in common? It's not just numbers, dates, weeks. This is a special time. Time for fairy tales, magic and secrets. To look beyond, to know the unknown, to touch the magic - people have always strived for this. But a special place in the enchanted days was occupied by divination by the betrothed. How many girlish hearts tremble during the winter holidays, how many candles are burned, how many boots are thrown away - do not count! Let's try to find out our future in 2023 with the help of divination for love!
Table of contents:
- Fortune-telling for the betrothed at home
- The easy way with carafe and water
- Broom and comb will indicate the groom
- The cards tell the truth
- Mirror Mystery
- On a nutshell
- Ritaul for marriage
- The wedding sang and danced
- Divination outside the home
- How to find out the name
- Spruce predictions
- Felt boots, felt boots
- Be happy and he althy!
Fortune-telling for the betrothed at home
The holidays are winter, and sometimes the bitter frost does not allow you to go outside. Here, as it is impossible, by the way, fortune-telling at home will come to the rescue.There are certain rules for divination:
- Maximum number of fortune tellers 2-3 people;
- It is desirable to isolate the room so that no one could interrupt the ritual;
- Hair to dissolve, all knots to untie;
- Use live fire for lighting: torch or candles;
- Must focus as much as possible.
The easy way with carafe and water
- Inventory is simple and accessible: decanter, water, glass.
Pour water from the decanter into the glass and back, read the plot:
“The long road takes away strength, the girl is waiting at the sweet threshold. Come into my yard, I'll give you a drink!"
The plot is read 3 times. They speak gently, affectionately, invitingly. Then a glass of water is placed near the bed and go to bed. The dreaming man is the betrothed. If the dream turned out to be empty, then you will have to sit “in girls” for another year.
Broom and comb will indicate the groom
For this ritual, you need a broom that has already participated in cleaning the house. To be sure, you can run in half again. Several twigs are removed from the broom and an impromptu bridge is woven and placed under the pillow. Then they comb their hair carefully, and the comb is sent to the company to the bridge. Hair remaining on the teeth is not removed.
Read the plot:
"On the way to me, the bridge stands on the river. Cross the bridge, take away with you. You hurry to me, comb my hair. I’ll start braiding and staring with you!”
After reading the plot, they go to bed. If ain a dream a man will come - a dream in his hand. No - the dream is empty.
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The cards tell the truth
The cards are not only played. If you have a solid supply of intuition, you can try to tell fortunes on the cards. It is especially good to guess at Christmas. Such fortune-telling for the betrothed has always been the most common ritual. Usually a simple playing deck is used. But some craftswomen successfully read Tarot cards.
There are thousands of ways, but beginners are advised to start with the simplest ones. Here are some ways:
Three Kings
This method is good for those girls who already have a loved one. The alignment allows you to find out what the future holds with this person. All four kings are selected from the deck. A man under 45 years old will be symbolized by a heart or cross suit. Worms for blondes, redheads and fair-haired, crosses for brown-haired and brunettes. The king, on which they will guess, is placed separately, and the rest are laid out above it. The cards are alternately laid out on three kings, and the remaining three on the hidden king. Then a prediction is read from them:
- Ace is the groom's love.
- The lady is a homemaker.
- Jack - the groom is disingenuous.
- Ten - the groom loves, but the passion is gone.
- Nine - love rules the show!
- Eight - sympathy, and nothing more.
- Seven - everything is serious and real. You can prepare for the wedding.
- Six is difficult, difficult, but strong and indestructible. Have tolearn to live in tandem.
"Meeting and getting to know"
This divination requires aces. They are chosen from the deck, shuffled and at the same time they ask the question: “When will I meet my betrothed?” Then one card is drawn and the probability of acquaintance is determined from it.
- Club - the groom is almost on the doorstep. To speed up the meeting, it is worth going out to society more often.
- Ace of Hearts - the time of the meeting will remain a mystery, but the relationship will be strong and long.
- Tambourine - look for a groom among friends.
- Peak - do not rush things. There is a time for everything.
"17 Moments"
This divination is not one hundred years old. Therefore, it is considered quite truthful and is often used to find out who your betrothed is in character. A lady is taken out of the deck. For a young girl, a diamond suit. Worms for a fair-haired woman, clubs for a dark-haired woman. Then you need to select all the cards from 7 to 10. The deck is shuffled and the cards are laid out in a row. The one that will be in front of the lady and tell about the character of the beloved.
- Tambourines - a person is young, the character is malleable, like plasticine. From it you can mold what you need.
- Worms are a grown man. Probably divorced. Looking for a serious relationship. Ready to cherish and protect them.
- Clubs - demanding, capricious, but monogamous.
- Piki is a holiday man. The character is steel, even heavy, but he loves bright colors. This will never be boring.
Mirror Mystery
A way for girls who are hard to scare. Need a mirrorcandle and glass of water. The candle is placed between the glass and the mirror. Read the plot:
"Far, far away, you disappear. Come quickly to the fire of a candle. Give you a drink, your pretty girl"
Read three times. Then carefully peer into the reflection of the glass in the mirror. You need to look at the center of the reflection. After a while, a narrowed-mummer will appear in the depths. He will approach slowly. The main thing is patience and no fear. As soon as the future groom gets as close as possible to the surface of the mirror, the candle must be extinguished, and the glass should be thrown onto the reflection.
On a nutshell
Nutshells are used to get a guy's name. For this ritual you will need:
- Walnut shell halves;
- Paper;
- Candle;
- Container (basin or trough) with water.
The names of young people who are surrounded by the girl are written on paper. These should be people you know well. It doesn't matter if they are married or not. Strips are cut and neatly folded. The size of the notes should be such that they fit freely into the shells. Then the improvised boats are launched into "swimming" along the side, and a shell with a candle is placed in the center of the container. Read the plot:
“I will go out to the fast river, I will go out to the blue sea. I will call my dear, but I don’t know the name. Fast boats, sail far. Tell me the name of the sweetheart soon! ”
That boat with the name, which will be the first to be nailed to the candle and indicate the name of the betrothed.
Ritaul onmarriage
This method is perfect for a company. Take a spool of thread and cut it into equal lengths. Someone has to cut. At the same time they say:
"A thread of fate, bring it to the altar"
Each one takes her own thread. Then they stand in a circle, and at the same time set fire to the threads from the candle. Whose burns out the fastest, she will jump out first in marriage in the coming year. If the strings burn out at the same time, the whole company will run "in girls" for another year.
The wedding sang and danced
You can guess about marriage or marriage in a company or alone. Two bags are placed on the table. In one beans (guys), in the other beans (girls). Single girls, married girls, and those who are in a relationship, but did not wear a wedding dress, can participate. Yes, guys can take part.
The fortuneteller takes two handfuls of beans and beans. Throws on the table. Pairs are made of them: bean + bean. The remaining seeds are interpreted:
| Number of seeds | Values for boys | Values for girls |
| Run single for another year | Wedding on the doorstep | |
| Beware of a friend | Tough choice | 3 beans |
| Many fans, but there will be no wedding | ||
| Wedding to be | To be "girly" this year | 2 beans |
| There is a rival | 3 beans | |
| The groom is the brother of one of the girlfriends |
Divination outside the home
Houses and walls help, but some fortune-telling on the betrothed is carried out on the street. There are both funny and scary ones among them.
How to find out the name of the betrothed?
Old way, centuries old. Simple and funny. On a festive night, the girls go out into the street and ask the name of the first person they meet. According to legend, this is exactly what the future groom will be called. Guessing is best in a fun company. It’s more interesting and won’t confuse a passer-by.
The second option is a lottery with passers-by. Names are written on paper. Men's for girls, women's for guys. The papers are wrapped and put into a bag. On the street they offer to get one piece of paper from the bag.
Important: boys approach women, girls approach men. The one who is going to know the name comes up.
Spruce predictions
This ceremony is only for brave girls. It gives you the opportunity to find out who your betrothed is. In the morning, just before the holidays, they go to the forest and collect Christmas tree or pine branches. They are brought to the bathhouse and steamed in snow water. By evening, you need to heat the bath, it’s not hot, because you have to stay in the bath for the night. They take bread or pies, herbal tea, a clean towel, sheets, candles with them. A table is laid on the bench: they put pies, tea. A towel is hung at the entrance to the bathhouse.
Exactly at midnight they go beyond the threshold and invite the betrothed, reading the plot:
“The stars are shining in the clear sky, the air is also clear and frosty. Pure snow, pure water. Only menot clean. You can’t take a steam bath alone, come help soon!”
The conspiracy is read four times on each side of the world. After they enter the bath, they lay a sheet on the canopy and go to bed. If in a dream the betrothed comes and starts to soar, then a dream in the hand - there will be a meeting with the future groom. If there were no dreams, then there will be no relationship.
What's the worst that can happen? The girls who practiced this divination for their betrothed say that they had different visions, they heard the creaks of floorboards and doors, it seemed that water was pouring nearby, someone's presence was felt. There is no need to be afraid, because the magic is strongest on Christmas or Christmas time, and since the holidays are holy, nothing bad will happen.
Felt boots, felt boots
An old, very popular divination that came to us from time immemorial. Standing facing the house, you need to throw your boot or felt boots behind your back. If he fell with his toe towards the house - you can wait for grooms or matchmakers, if not - the expectations are empty.
Be happy and he althy!
New Year, Christmas, Christmas time - the most magical and mystical time. Days of hope and heartfelt trembling. It doesn't matter what the spirits of the holiday tell, the main thing is that these days the whole world is shrouded in goodness and love. Divination for a betrothed is a great way to have fun, take a closer look at your partner, look at him with different eyes. And may all wishes come true!